What's predestination all about?

Here's a question a friend has asked me recently about predestination. Let's get discussion going in the comments.
Question
Pastor  could you explain predestination according to Eph. 1: 4-5   I don't think God called some and not others to be part of His family. I have heard teaching on this

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